woman, confident, a good wife, has a successful husband, interesting and profitable job, happy and healthy children - will never attract the attention of men, accustomed to casual sex.The interest, of course, be expressed, however, will not go beyond what is permitted.As a rule, the "predator-man" is selected victims who did not have to be persuaded to make such a move.These victims are vulnerable women who do not have specific goals that can quickly change the decision and does not stay on one place for a long time.
Let's see what these casual relationships gradually evolved.
Consider the following example:
Late afternoon, evening secretary turned into an endless labor.She has to do the work again, proven superior.I would like to have, and to relax and have dinner, but the girl did not have to leave the workplace and manage to get the job done before the departure of the boss.Then she gradually realizes that today does not look as usual, but her husband was not at home and busy with the affairs
One great philosopher Bergson suggested that in a world of cause and determined.This phenomenon is also called determinism.He was right, because there is things moving randomly, no objects, operating independently of the external manifestations.So here - there is a reason that turns thought into action.The fate often gives us to solve puzzles and tests of strength, and the way we endure tests depends on the outcome of a particular activity relationships.
Is it possible to avoid this kind of temptation, and not to succumb to something like casual relationships?
imagine that the same girl.What was in the office, I would not be solved at this desperate step, but just be brewed tea and enjoy the taste and aroma to the drink useful together with any air cakes or chocolate bar.These products could gradually develop endorphins - pleasure hormones and thus allow to finish the job on time without feeling excessive fatigue.But this is all it will depend on the characteristics of the individual.On the strength of will and temperament.If the person is strong in their desires, he is able to dispose of his mind and always deliberate approach to making any decisions, it would not be difficult to find an alternative to physical contact, which then lead to serious consequences.If the person is weak, both in terms of communicating with other people, as well as in operating their desires and capabilities, it will certainly be at risk and fraud.
It is worth noting the fact that the sexual feelings of each of casual partners are different.Men are considered to be selfish in this matter, as in any case they will get the desired result - a long-awaited orgasm and pleasure.The girl who dreams in nature of affection and tenderness, will be disappointed.Thus, it appears that men receive a minimum of discomfort and side effects, the maximum pleasure and orgasm, and the girl on the contrary - a minimum of pleasure and tenderness, but the maximum pain and consequences.Optimism in this case is simply not appropriate.
give 2 situations - when a random connection was made in the absence of a permanent partner and, if available.
Everyone knows that we tend to be addictive, but because if we had received their daily dose of pleasure from sexual contact, and then suddenly, it was gone again and then quickly forget that we can not.Our body will gradually give rise to the fact that there is a lack of attention.So we start looking for an alternative to former partner, which contributes to the appearance of casual sex, and dangerous links.And if there is a number of a person who is willing to give you an unforgettable experience, you still should not deceive ourselves.Sometimes, there are circumstances in which we are forced to go against their senses and surrender to passion with a stranger.
most often girls that concern casual relationships, motivated by a desire to prove to themselves that they have something capable, they are perfect and choosy about sexual relationships with men, the last time so easily excited.Then it would be possible, and to stay there, but there should be contact, which then arises sign of satisfaction.Everyone wants to finish the job because the end is sexual contact, turning into a regrettable.This is the psychological side of the issue of the consequences of casual relationships.
one thing when the end of the interaction partners did not have an orgasm, and another thing - when this contact has left a trace for a long time, sometimes for life.Consider a situation where the arena of bed led to such surprises as pregnancy.And, your partner is not intended to continue to communicate with you, and just hoped to get a temporary enjoyment.He may just leave you, and not making it clear that it is in you not satisfied with it, too, is haunted by the girl not to think about what she herself is "sold" allowed temporary use.But the most terrible consequences of a disease that is transmitted sexually, and it turned out quite serious.First you lose confidence, then the family, then work.Your life will cease to have meaning.
therefore than to do something, think about the consequences.