The modern world is full of violence, aggression and injustice.To survive it is becoming harder and harder.Even if an adult can not afford to cope with the negative phenomena that surround him every day, and even more so to a small child.Needless to say how many children have become prisoners of psychological disorders?
Many people think that only adults have a problem, evoking violence and aggression, and thus forget that the child - it is also a living being, and, therefore, can also feel.
today is to touch such issues as aggression and violence in the world of adults and children.
Despite the fact that children seem to be more calm, they are busy with their games, humdrum antics, this does not mean that they do not hear and do not see.Everything that is happening around their personal space will certainly regard senses: hearing, smell and sight.And this, in fact, operates the second signal system-perception.Thus, the child, not knowing the features of adult life, the essence of the problems, sta
To cope with aggression and violence taking place in the world to pay attention to this factor in the occurrence of these events, such as physical abuse in the family.
Earlier still acted phrase "girls can not be", it has now worn off easily with contemporary stereotypes.Oddly enough, but this phenomenon is often seen in young families.Moreover, it is not necessary to blame belonged to a woman.There are times when a man just not in the mood, so getting rid of negative energy by applying a physical or emotional blow to his wife.This does not include alcoholism, drug use and management of racket.
thus be seen that the female means at hand - a rolling pin, a frying pan that had previously ridiculed in comedy shows and in everyday life, is completely degraded.Now a decisive role in all processes of education in the family plays a husband.
should also highlight a category, and violence as a psychological.When my husband comes home from work, then it is often begin to irritate the usual things: he throws the clothes and then immediately scolds his wife that she was sloppy supper without taking away for a dirty dishes, and later accused the wife in her neglect to household items andrelations as a whole.It turns out that all the blame for the problems of women only.But sometimes the reverse situation, when a woman behaves inappropriately, and all their claims expressed man only in order to relieve the tension.
said in a fit of rage words, do not save on the growth of resentment and psychological disorders.That no one takes pleasure, and only give to understand that the loved one has become a cold ceased to experience feelings of love and lost respect.About trust in such a family will not have to talk.
child, watching the scene in the world, in particular in the family, begins to remember and in the future to use this style of behavior.Adults give an example, then you need to do so, and not otherwise.It's no wonder that my mother said that if you will play sports, you will become stronger, as the Pope, and the Pope, in turn, insisted that education and proper attitude towards it will bring knowledge and development of the mind as a mother.Consequently, quickly getting used to solve problems with the help of battering, quarrels, use psychological abuse, the child believes it is quite acceptable.After all, parents do so, then copying their work will bear fruit, and their praise.
If family scandals and aggression in adults arises from misunderstanding each other changes, problems at work, saying swear words, that because of what is happening quarrels and problems in children?What is their world?
Statistics show that most of the negative points happens with the children on the street, where they are surrounded by the usual yard kids.A simple example: a standard situation - kids playing in the sandbox, one child wanted to use a shovel to construct "garage", and at that moment another child wanted to take the same shovel and bury the truck.There is aggression because of the children's toys.Each participant quarrels will insist that this kind of thing he needed more.Of course, then they go out, but in the future, at meetings, will avert their eyes to the side, remembering that is not shared, because of which the dispute arose.
The second factor affecting the mental disorder is movies.TV - a global "drug", where all the children are sitting.Yes, it is the children, not adults.Parents already ceased to notice what programs are interested in their child.Unlikely to suspect that a child is not looking "Chip and Dale" and "House 2. City of love", or even worse, night after a transmission 00.00.
In the world of aggression and violence can relate to adults and children, not only through direct contact, but also, of course, visual, as has been said, as well as - virtual.Computer games - that's another problem.There are logical, educational games for children, which, of course, useful.However, imperceptibly parental attention, shalunishki able to quickly switch panel with one game to another.So, keep an eye on the actions of the child is very difficult.
So, it is worth remembering - the child is directly dependent on the adults and help him become a developed, intelligent and sociable can just parents who do not create trauma myself or him.