One of the global problems of all humanity is the problem of fathers and children.Immediately comes to mind is a known product of Turgenev's "Fathers and Sons."The author clearly indicates the primacy of love and mutual understanding, the responsibility of parents to their child.Everything is interconnected and therefore, losing something dear heart, it is impossible to immediately forget about it and find a consolation.
theme that we consider today is the transfer of the right to education of the child's father ..
We often see women left alone like no man, homeless and without the means to further existence.Strange, but this surprising how this picture is, as everything has become commonplace.And what do you tell that meet a beautiful, tall, stylishly dressed man holding a child?Probably the first thing to think about how lucky the woman, who has found such a wonderful family man, able to take the time to walk with your child.But in de turns out that this "macho" alone, but with a baby in her arms.R
I must say one thing - a man capable of raising a child on their own, without external support, should be known to all and therefore deserve respect.However, a question arises whether there is a possibility to be considered extraordinary men, responsible and best in class just because of the fact that they have decided on such a desperate step and now raising a child by yourself?
Referring to this example:
man lived a long time with his beloved woman to give him a long-awaited child.He is happy that there is a strong family and is proud to be a woman and son love him and around always listen.But when the next delivery, it is that a woman dies giving birth to a child.The father is the one with the two children.How could he be in a similar situation?Many immediately comes to mind - to give "own blood" in a children's home and forget about what happened, to continue to live on.However, not all are so heartless and becomes the main idea - how to bring up children without a mother?How to give them care and affection?Is there a transfer of the right to education of children the father?
In order to be able to direct your mind in the right direction, you must be tolerant and wise responsive person with a sharp mind and know the consequences of each decision.In this case it is possible to warn yourself from unnecessary problems and continue with a calm heart Children
Usually, if it happens that the wife and the family leaves, carried out officially divorce, the woman dies, the right of a child to his father passed.He later would marry again and thus provide their children a new mother, and himself to perform their former duties.I wonder if you get any benefits fathers of families?There is a similar system in the world, providing for the issuance of additional material resources to ensure a child's life, but the amount is so small that and talk about it is not necessary.Questions addressed to increase the number of times, but on the government, these documents are gone, and were sent over time, pigeonholed.Disputes arose repeatedly in order to encourage the authorities still help single fathers.All that the participants were able to achieve performances, it is increasing the amount of the payment is 70 rubles.These penny that is, that is not.A special role has not played in the child's life or in the life of his father.Especially when you consider that the current prices for food and other consumer goods and only do that move upward.
But the financial problem is less likely to be worried man as labor is always needed, and therefore to provide food and clothing a child he could.But what to do with their duties regarding the education and care of a minor miracle, is not known.If the object is to educate a boy, it's not so bad, but if "lucky" with the girl, the father will have serious problems.The ignorance of many women's secrets, a man will have a very, very difficult.
girls who brought some fathers are always easy to spot: they dress like boys behave or too casually, or vice versa, too timid and shy, rarely painted and do not observe the rules of propriety, his voice rough, and as to their interests,they fully coincide with male - golf, boxing, football and so on.
Nobody says that the father has the right to raise the child on his own image, but due to the fact that his knowledge would be insufficient, it will omit the error.Most luck to those who have already had to deal with children and know at least the basics.But men do not relate to in my life, never such a problem, you simply ask for advice from friends, practice using videos or read books.
If the father in the last complete family treated his wife with love, understand, respond to reciprocate her affection, the child, who is now his responsibility, get everything you need and may not even notice the lack of a second parent.And if there were frequent scandals and quarrels.So, unfortunately, the man will be difficult to cope with this factor.Therefore, the fact that a man has agreed to address the issue of education alone does not mean that it is perfect in every way.His true face will appear when the process starts.
nice to hear the statements of the fathers that over time they have become more calm and good-natured, and interested in how their children are successful in school, what problems arise at different stages of life.
Thus, father raising a child, and the child - the father.